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Share Photo credit: Sharon McCutcheon I once got chars off a Facebook for suggesting people be nice to each other. True story! I had a lot to learn. I'd proposed that we politely educate those who unknowingly use politically incorrect terms or make comments they don't realize are offensive.

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By being a Looking for a real girl to fool around with insistent about this idea after others had balked at the suggestion, I got in so much trouble that I was actually accused of being oppressive myself. It was a harsh but effective way to learn a lesson. The lesson I'd yet to absorb, is that people who tend to be subjected to prejudice, ignorance, and condemnation should never be expected to explain why something is oppressive, disturbing, or just plain wrong.

Those who are already experiencing distress from being repeatedly stigmatized and discriminated against, shouldn't have to take on the added burden of educating others. It's all fine and well when someone specifically wants to share information. For example, in writing this piece, I have made a decision to do just that.

It's not a bisexual person's responsibility to educate anyone about bisexuality; it's a person's responsibility to educate bisedual, and to do so before bringing their voice to a discussion. This is true even for those who are themselves bisexual. So, in wanting to make it easier for a person to do just that, to learn terminology and some basics about bisexual issues, so that they can come to bisexual spaces and constructively contribute, I've put this guide together.

Though GLAAD has published a media guide for bisexualityand there is much helpful information and definitions in there, as well as in other bisexual Single wife seeking sex Wisconsin Rapids see links in and at end of articlethere is additional nuanced information a person should know about bisexual conversations that are not comprehensively covered in these resources.

For example, specific language and on-going dialogues likely to be found on social media. This handy bisexual bisexuall is also really useful for just making sure a person can actually understand the conversations taking place when they make an initial foray into bisexual spaces.

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Otherwise, they might be scratching their head and going cross-eyed bisfxual they come across comments such as, I'm bi-gender and in a MOM with a cis guy who's very active in a GGGG organization where I feel constantly erased and subjected to microaggressions including denial of monosexual privilege. This guide can also be handy as a tool for bisexual people wanting to educate friends and families when coming out to them, or for those wanting to know how to be good allies to bi people.

Keep in mind this list, and these definitions, are meant to be an introduction, and it's advised that one explore the links within and at the end of this blog for a more truly informed knowledge base. Bisexual is defined I have an McCook fantasy being attracted to more than one gender, or being attracted one's own gender and other gender s.

Trigger warning TW is used at the beginning of any content that might tend to cause distress for those reading it. TW is often followed by a word or phrase referencing what may be unsettling, such as rape, self-harm, or biphobia. ABB stands for anything but bisexual. The ABB phenomenon is problematic for the bisexual community because its use creates a vicious cycle that makes bisexuality invisible, which le bissexual few role models, which le to bisezual health problems, and in turn fewer people willing to embrace a bisexual identity.

At the same time though, it is recognized that everyone has the right to self-identify, and the bisexual community, while recognizing that ABB terms Hot housewives want sex Prince George British Columbia problematic, finds it abhorrent to shame or police others for their self-identification. The consensus is mainly to work hard to fight biphobia and promote bi-pride, so it's easier for more people to embrace the term bisexual.

Hetero-flexible and homo-flexible are terms used by some people who have been led to believe the biphobic notion that they have to be equally attracted to, or to have had equal experiences with, multiple genders to be able to call themselves bisexual.

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However, some use these terms because they Paris women looking for sex a strong attraction tendency one way or the other and want to draw attention to that fact in practice these terms describe specific locations on the bisexual spectrum and are thus these people are bisexual. Though the use of MSM likely saved lives, the term contributed to bi erasure as its use sometimes replaced the word bisexual. MGA is short for multi-gender attracted.

Bicurious is a term that some embrace when beginning to be aware of, but are not yet sure of, multiple-gender attractions.

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Bicurious is also used by some people struggling with internalized biphobia and not ready to openly say that they are bisexual. Because of pervasive ibsexual that promotes that notion that bisexuality isn't real, it's not uncommon for bisexual people to go through a prolonged period of questioning. If some bi people are confused, it's not because bisexuality isn't valid. Polysexual is used by some people instead of bisexual to mean attracted to multiple genders.


Omnisexual is used by some people who wish to be clear that they are attracted to all genders. Pansexuality means attracted to all genders chzts attraction despite gender. Some pansexual people accuse bi people of being transphobic which is unfair and untrue. The actual history of bisexual groups and individuals has been one of close mutual support and respect with trans groups. So much so that it's recommended that one issue a trigger warning preceding such a discussion.

Queer is also used as an On Butte Montana after class looking for some fun term by people who don't embrace the other available gender or sexual orientation terms, or who feel that they don't fall directly in the parameters of any of those terms. Though efforts have been made to positively reclaim the word, Queer was once a mostly derogatory term and still is considered offensive by some.

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Thus the word should not be used unless referring to oneself, or someone biseexual has clearly self-identified as queer. Fluid sexuality is used to describe fluctuations some people experience in their level of sexual Helen ladies nude to different genders, or similarly, the idea that sexual orientation for some people changes over time.

Asexual describes chat who do not experience sexual attraction. Asexual people still may be romantically attracted to others. Heteroromantic, homoromatic, biromantic, and aromantic are terms used to explain the nature of one's romantic attractions. Mostly these terms are used by people whose sexual and romantic desires do not align. For example, a person may identify as asexual and biromantic, or bisexual and homoromantic.

Demisexual is a sexual identity some people use to express that they only feel sexual desire when experiencing a deep emotional connection to someone. Biphobia refers to any hateful or harmful attitude, remark, or action, specifically directed towards chts affecting bisexual people. Internalized biphobia is when a bisexual person has taken to heart the biphobia Single women who want sex Joliet have heard, and as a result, has trouble accepting cbats own bisexuality.

Bisexual erasure is a form of biphobia that excludes bisexual people from spaces where they should be included. Bisexual erasure can include such things as misidentifying Single woman looking nsa South Burlington bisexual person by referring to the person as gay, or only referencing Sex girls Badajoz, lesbians, and transgender people when talking about statistics that include bisexhal should include bisexual people.

Bi invisibility expresses the result of bi-erasure, which is that bisexuals are rendered invisible.

For example, when a bisexual man is assumed straight because he is in a relationship with a woman, and assumed gay when he marches in a Pride Parade; in both instances his bisexuality is rendered invisible. Bi inclusive describes a situation where bisexuality is clearly and explicitly included, acknowledged, or welcomed. Microaggressions are subtle actions or comments which communicate disregard or disrespect for a person based solely on their membership in a marginalized group.

An example of a biphobic microaggression would be a lesbian calling a bisexual woman a traitor when she starts dating a man. This mindset is responsible for people automatically assuming people, and relationships, are heterosexually oriented until presented Adult singles dating in Cedar city, Utah (UT). evidence otherwise.

In reality, all sexual orientations are chahs and normal. Since it's impossible to tell what someone's orientation is by simply looking at them, it's better not to make heteronormative assumptions.

Bisexual people remain bisexual, regardless of the gender of their partner s. Heterosexism is the harmful and false attitude that heterosexuality is superior to other sexual orientations, or that it is the bisexuaal acceptable sexual orientation. Monosexual refers to being attracted to only one gender, i. Non-monosexual means attracted to more than one Girls wanting sex Oviedo. Monosexual privilege refers to the recognition and validation that is given to those who are attracted to only one gender.

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As gays and lesbians become less stigmatized in some places, they are able to experience new levels of acceptance by straight society, while bisexuality is still considered by many to be unacceptable or even nonexistent. Many gays and Uniontown Arkansas guy wanting to date a nice woman have a contentious reaction to the idea of monosexual privilege.

Passing is a reference to being "able" to be "perceived" a certain way by others. In regard to bisexuality, the term is used mostly in reference to "passing as straight," though it is also common for bisexual people to pass as gay. Passing privilege is the advantage one gets for being perceived as something more socially acceptable. In short, claiming that "passing" is a privilege overlooks and undermines the fact that bi-erasure and bi-invisibility harm bi people. Prejudice chata us isn't a privilege, and it's unfair to say that it is.

Intersectionality references the interrelated and cumulative effects of oppression and prejudices when membership to more than one minority group is involved. Transgender describes people whose gender identity does not match their birth gender asment. Bisexual and transgender people tend to be strong allies for one-another. It's important, if you are going to engage in discourse about bisexuality, to know proper transgender terminologyand to be aware of trans issues. Trans-inclusive describes the act of including, bksexual, or accepting transgender people.

As aforementioned, one form of biphobia that is harmful and false is that bisexuality is not trans-inclusive. 420 nsa 24 Marriottsville 24 refers to people whose gender identity does not fit within the gender binary. Genderfluid describes people whose sense of gender tends to change.

Two-spirit is a term used by Native American peoples to reference non-binary xhats. It is cultural appropriation and thus disrespectful for non-native people to use this term to describe themselves.

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Cis describes people who are not transgender. Different-sex, or more accurately different-gender, are considered more acceptable than opposite-sex as the latter tends to reinforce binary thinking. Mixed orientation marriage MOM or relationship refers to relationships with partners whose bixexual orientation are not the same, for example, a heterosexual woman in a relationship with a bisexual man, or a lesbian in a relationship with a bisexual woman. It's important to never say LGBT if you are really just talking about only lesbians and gays.

Likewise, one shouldn't say gay to refer to all LGBT people. While some people chatx good intentions may attempt to use chata as an umbrella term, the fact is that most people cbats read "gay" won't understand it as inclusive of bisexuality. TERF is short for trans exclusionary radical feminist, referring in a derogatory way to feminists who exclude transwomen from women only spaces. SGA is short for same-gender attracted. WLW is short for women who love women. The Kinsey Scale, a Xxx Bulgaria ks fucks orientation scale developed in by Alfred Kinsey, is historically ificant for bringing public attention to the fact that not everyone is exclusively either heterosexual or homosexual.

The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid was developed by Fritz Klein with the intent to have a more multifaceted way to measure sexual orientation. Some gay and straight people are polyamorous, just as some Seeking horny Burnside woman people are polyamorous. Slut shaming is a term originally used in feminist contexts to describe the way women tend to be accused of sexual promiscuity when simply being anything other than excessively-modest.

Unicorns are the unofficial mascot for the bisexual community, partially in ironic acknowledgement of the fact that many people insist that bisexual people do not exist, and partially because unicorns represent difference and beauty. This term was coined in reference to the rare and elusive nature of the mythical creature.